Friday, December 9, 2011
One of my friends, Jorge, grew up in Mexico but later moved to the United States. I asked my friend many questions about how he came to the United States and what brought him here? After talking with him for a long time, I realized the major effect that it had on him and his family. Jorge's dad move to the United States 5 years before the rest of the family was able to move. His dad went to the States because he wanted to find a job where he could earn more money for him and his family. Jorge explained that he had a difficult time not having his dad in his life. He struggled a lot in his teenage years because he didn't have a dad to turn to when he was going through difficulties. Jorge also said that him and his siblings were torn apart because some move to the States sooner than others so they didn't have a very close relationship. Once Jorge's whole family finally moved to the United States, they experienced a lot of criticism and stereotypes. He said that it was hard to fit in in America because he had some obvious differences than the other students in his class. It was sad to listen to Jorge's story because of the strong effect it had on him. He still struggles with difficulties from his past and wants to do it differently when he becomes a parent. After talking in class about immigration and talking to Jorge, I have gained a much different perspective on immigration and realize how difficult it is for families who immigrate.